This entire season has been a reminder that there is no much we do not know, even when we think we do. We are constrained by our humanity. Our automatic brain processes, our insufficient categories, our implicit biases, our sin nature – all of these things and more work to keep us in reduced cognitive capacity even when we feel like we know so much. In order to understand our fullest meaning, we need to cooperate with the Divine Author.
Read MoreThe longer and more often we rehearse the connections and meanings we’ve made of things, the stronger those connections and meanings become. If those meanings are true and healthy, we have goodness that sticks. If those meanings are untrue and unhealthy, we have damage that sticks. Rehearsal is like cognitive glue and that’s why it’s so important to stop and consider the scripts we’ve been repeating to ourselves which are shaping our stories and our lives.
Read MoreWe quite literally can tell ourselves a story that will become our reality because of the telling. The meaning we make of our stories determines everything. How often do we box ourselves into rigid categories? How often do we do this with God?
Read MoreWhen we float through life trusting our automatic brain processes, we’re literally unaware of how our story is taking shape. This sort of unintentional and incurious approach to ourselves and to others produces rotten fruit. When we don’t understand our stories, when we have accepted false realities and even false identities, we aren’t really living. We are existing and, most of the time, pretty miserably at that. What we find, usually in times of emotional crisis, is that we aren’t known by anyone, not even ourselves.
Read MoreScripture makes clear that humankind, while made in God’s image and capable of extraordinary goodness and genius, is also corrupted, limited, and to a large extent blind. Repeatedly, Jesus emphasized the importance of praying for eyes to see and ears to hear the truth because the bend of every one of our hearts is away from the truth and not toward it. When it comes to making moral meaning, the consequences of our blindness couldn't be more serious.
Read MoreIt's not an exaggeration to say that meaning making is one of the most critical acts with which we’ll ever engage and that this is terrifying because we are fallible human beings with limited capacity and understanding. Also, most of us muddle through life without ever questioning the meaning we have made of our stories and how that meaning is impacting us and so we continue making meaning without giving it a thought in the world, many times to the detriment of ourselves and others. Join in this season as we explore how to revolutionize the ways we make meaning.
Read MoreJoin my guest and dear friend, Tammy Jones, and I as we finish our conversation on the disillusionments of motherhood. There will be no tidy bows here, friends! We let the tension sit as we find God's gold in the realities -- beautiful and raw -- of motherhood.
Read MoreI don't know about you, but Mother's Day comes with its complications. It's not that motherhood isn't meaningful, beautiful, and worthy of acknowledgment and celebration. The truth is, for many of us, motherhood has been far from the fairytale we'd imagined. As it turns out, we are much more imperfect than we understood and our children are no angels themselves. What happens when you realize one day that the journey you'd built up in your mind as the pinnacle of feminine purpose is actually more of a disillusioning, white-knuckle experience that has broken your heart in ways you didn't see coming? Join us today as we dig for God's gold in the less-than-Hallmark moments of motherhood.
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